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Show Us Your Books: January/February 2016

March 8, 2016 by Mariah 24 Comments

Book Review for January 2016

Hello All! I made it back to the blog for Show Us Your Books! I’m combining two months for this post, and really most of these were read in January. Much like blogging, reading has also gotten a bit of a bump when it comes to prioritizing time. However, reading is one of the few activities that really relaxes me (ie I can focus on it and only it), so I do try to get some reading time in at night or in the morning. This is what I’ve been reading lately…

The Silent Land by Graham Joyce

It was a good read. I sort of figured out what was probably going on midway through, but it was a well written, well developed story. I feel like it’s a good pass the time read, but not too fluffy either.

 

Why Not Me? by Mindy Kaling

I have so enjoyed both her book. I find them laugh out loud funny, like I was reading this one at the airport laughing out loud. I can’t say I like one over the other one, I enjoyed them both. I did like how this one really got into her career and how she got The Mindy Show. Here were a few of my favorite quotes:

“We will never come home to each other again and we will never again have each other’s undivided attention. That version of our friendship is over forever.”

“If you’ve got it, flaunt it. And if you don’t got if? Flaunt it. ‘Cause what are we even doing here if we’re not flaunting it?”

“People get scared when you try to do something, especially when it looks like you’re succeeding. People do not get scared when you’re failing. It calms them.”

FanGirl by Rainbow Rowell

Loved, loved this book! I love all of her books 🙂 Her character development is what makes her books. I’m always so surprised at how much I enjoy her books, most of the time reading the summary, I think, nope not for me and then I get sucked right in and LOVE it. I didn’t even mind the fan fiction. I have to say I’m not hugely drawn to the concept of Carry On, but I’m totally going to read it, because well I’ve learned my lesson. Just for fun I decided to rank her books: 1. Eleanor & Park 2. FanGirl 3. Attachments 4. LandLine. It was a bit a toss up between 2 and 3. What has been your favorite?

Welcome to Night Vale by Joseph Fink, Jeffrey Cranor

I was not a fan. I kept thinking that it would kind of come together, and was disappointed. I could not get into the story, the writing rhythm totally threw me off. I like books where I can get lost in the story and this was not it. It is interesting that it started as a podcast though. One day I will learn just to put books down that I don’t really like, but it doesn’t seem like that will be anytime soon 🙂

Pretty Girls by Karin Slaughter

This book was one of those that got you hooked immediately, and I stayed up way too late reading. This book was all kinds of crazy, and twists and turns (though lots that you saw coming). It is a bit on the long side, but I would rather get more closure than less.

The Good Girl by Mary Kubica 

Meh. I don’t have anything much to say with this one. I just felt very blah about it overall, not the worst book, but didn’t really love the characters, the plot, or how it was presented. I wasn’t a fan of the jumping back and forth in time either. Also, the side story on the mom and detective was more annoying than sweet to me.

Thank you to Steph & Jana for always keeping us well stocked in the reading department!!

Life According to Steph

What have you been reading lately? 

Show Us Your Books: December 2015

January 11, 2016 by Mariah 28 Comments

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Had a great reading month in December!

The first thing I must share is that, Miriam (Farm Girl), finished and published her very first book!!

How To Be You

I am SO proud of Miriam for following through on a dream and putting herself out there. I was beyond thrilled to get to push buy on Amazon and read her book. I was smiling ear to ear reading it, and crying a little too. Nothing I can write here will do her justice. I don’t push you guys much here to do anything, but I demand you go buy this book 🙂 GO NOW, PRESS BUY!! Seriously, it’s your lose if you don’t listen to me.

In other December reading news, I had several books that really got me thinking and are changing my daily actions, which I love. As always when we talk about books it’s with Jana & Steph 🙂

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A Good Marriage by Stephen King

I just randomly picked this up between books. It’s more of a short story than a novel, and this edition contained the story 1922, which was actually longer than A Good Marriage. Both were ok, but not my favorite King writing. A bit more old school thriller/mystery as in the lines of Hitchcock. Apparently they made a movie of A Good Marriage, I’m going to have to look it up. That is what drew me in to choose this book, as I was waiting on holds 🙂

Steal Like An Artist by Austin Kleon

LOVED this book. Very quick read, but so many good tidbits. Sometimes you need to hear out loud (read out loud) things that are common sense, but click when you see them on paper. I felt like there was so much good advice in this book. I get really overwhelmed with the idea of originality especially with spending so much time online, so this resonated with me to get out of my own head. I pulled a few of the passages that I really felt rang a bell with me…

“What a good artist understands is that nothing comes from nowhere. All creative work builds on what came before. Nothing is completely original.”

“If we’re free from the burden of trying to be completely original, we can stop trying to make something out of nothing, and we can embrace influence instead of running away from it.”

“You are, in fact, a mashup of what you choose to let into your life. You are the sum of your influences. The German writer Goethe said, “We are shaped and fashioned by what we love.”

“…if you try to devour the history of your discipline all at once, you’ll choke. Instead, chew on one thinker–writer, artist, activist, role model–you really love. Study everything there is to know about that thinker. Then find three people that thinker loved, and find out everything about them. Repeat this as many times as you can. Climb up the tree as far as you can go.”

Better Than Before by Gretchen Rubin

Loved, loved. This is a book that I can say 100% changed actions and something I’m still working on applying today. I took like five pages of notes and it really got me thinking about how I set goals, and daily routines. This is one of my top books for getting me thinking and putting things in a different mindset for myself. Very thought provoking, but also very actionable. Prior to this book, I had not read The Happiness Project. Embarrassingly enough I didn’t even realize she wrote The Happiness Project, though she referred it often in Better Than Before (however she never said “my” book). She breaks down personality into four types when it comes to building habits and approaching goals: Upholders, Questioners, Obligers, and Rebels. She then goes through different approaches to building habits and how the different types can best use these approaches. I just loved this book, and had so many good ideas while reading it. I’ve been struggling with getting a daily routine together, and this book was wonderful for me.

The Happiness Project by Gretchen Rubin

Of course after reading Better Than Before, I checked this out immediately. The books certainly flow into one another, though I think I might have looked at Better Than Before with a more fresh view of the author than if I had read The Happiness Project first. I really liked this one too, though it felt less actionable than Better Than Before. Honestly, it’s hard to separate the two completely in my mind, once I finished this one. The Happiness Project reads to me much more of a personal story, where Better Than Before is a bit more scientific based. I liked The Happiness Project too and it had some great lessons about being more mindful. I love the idea of building your personal commandments and really evaluating what do you enjoy, versus what you “wish” you enjoyed. This is an exercise that I am absolutely working on and bringing into my life.

Black-Eyed Susans by Julia Heaberlin

Nice fast-paced plot that draws you in quickly. I think the “love” story was so superfluous to the story, it could have so easily been left out. It seemed so silly to add that in and not tie it better to the plot or emotions of the character…other than hook-up scenes and a splash of jealousy here and there. I felt like the ending was presented in a clunky manner, and super rushed. Honestly they could have cut out some of the “love story” and added to the end instead of cramming it all into the Epilogue. Good entertainment value but overall the characters and plot could have used some refinement as you got further into the story.

The Expats by Chris Pavone

I hated the back and forth jumping in time of this book. Often times jumping around does not really bother me, but in this book it did. I considered giving up on it half way through, because I was so annoyed. To me it was hard to really get into the plot. Of course right about when I thought about giving in, they stopped jumping around quite so much. The plot is interesting but I was not blown away with this one.

The Psychopath Test by Jon Ronson

What an interesting read! I really enjoyed how he organized the book and found it very intriguing and engaging. I enjoyed this book much more than I expected. I thought the topic was interesting so I thought I would give it a try, and found the author very witty and engaging. Not a dry book, so if you have an interest in psychology at all, I think you would enjoy it.

ReWork by Jason Fried

I like how straightforward this book was. I think there was some good advice there for anyone in business. I would have loved to share some that knowledge, but my kindle did not save my highlights 🙁 I’m so sad.  

What books are on your 2016 reading list?

P.S. As a total side note, I’m really focusing on building my business this month. January has started off great. Anyway that is why I’ve been quiet over here, I just need to put all my attention and energy to get BHG off the ground 🙂 So sorry for the lack of interaction lately….don’t worry I’ll be back when things get smoother.

Show Us Your Books: November 2015

December 7, 2015 by Mariah 35 Comments

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I feel like this month had some pretty good book picks. This linkup has certainly gotten me to read more than I was a year ago so yay!! I’ve always loved reading, but having a good go-to list certainly helps keep me in the habit. Thanks to Jana and Steph for hosting!

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The title is linked to Goodreads and the cover is linked to Amazon.

Eleanor & Park by Rainbow Rowell

Loved this book! I’m a fan of Rowell (it’s official)! I liked both the other books I’ve read, Landline & Attachments. This one I liked the most. The ending kind of left you hanging, but I also really liked it. It’s kind of like you could make it sad or happy yourself, very clever. I don’t want to completely ruin it by saying the end, but I would love to hear other’s thoughts on it. The characters were so well developed. Rowell really rocks at developing characters you can’t help but love. She has a real talent, that you don’t see in many authors. I think I’m even going to have to read FanGirl now, even though the descriptor does not appeal to me.

Orange Is The New Black by Piper Kerman

The show and the book are worlds apart. The show (not surprising) is highly dramatized and the characters seem to be bits and pieces of the characters from the book. The names are not even the same. I really wonder if she stayed in touch with any of these women she so fondly writes about or tried to help them. I have a hard time finding Piper highly likeable in the book and the show, I see her a bit entitled (or something along that line). I don’t know exactly what it is that strikes me as wrong with her telling of the story. Overall, a good read, good writing, and it flowed well. I’m a bit disappointed a few of the book characters have not made it on the show (yet?).

The Devil You Know by Trish Doller

Ok, let’s try this again 🙂 This “The Devil You Know” was much better than the one I read last month. The writing was much better. This was one of those “guilty” easy reads, finished in about a day.

Summerlong by Dean Bakopoulos

This book grew on me. I wasn’t hooked right away, but by the end I was like huh not a bad book. I found the characters a bit annoying though. 

“It’s regretting yesterday or over-thinking tomorrow, that’s when ugliness comes in, right?”

“Why do we do that to ourselves? Why do we stay away so long from the places that make us whole?”

The Kind Worth Killing by Peter Swanson

It drew me in very quickly, and I finished it in a day. I liked how fast the story moved, but overall just an ok read for me. I didn’t really care for the conclusion.

Forgive Me, Leonard Peacock by Matthew Quick

The premise/plot is not one I would gravitate towards, but it’s a good book. Quick is so good at character development and the way he presents his stories. He gets the human condition, and expresses it beautifully. I felt the same about The Good Luck of Right Now, odd plot but the characters and what they express make the book.

Is Everyone Hanging Out Without Me? by Mindy Kaling

I loved this book. I found it laugh out loud funny. More entertaining consistently than I think I felt about Poehler or Fey’s book. I read a lot of reviews where people seemed meh about this book, but I loved it. She is so spot on with so many of the observations. I mean come on, guys taking FOREVER to get their shoes on…it’s true in my house. I felt like I was laughing and mentally say yes, yes, so true, so true, through most of the book. Mindy can stuff it over her cap sleeve comment, I love cap sleeves and they look good on me 🙂 I did have to use the lookup function for some of the name dropping. I always need a reference when people talk about most famous people anyway, so it could just be me. She’s funny, the book is funny. I’m definitely reading the next one. While we are on the topic (sort of), I feel like now that Hulu has taken over The Mindy Project, it is taking a downhill turn. I just don’t find it that funny, it’s jumped the shark and seems more awkward than funny to me. Just needed to put that out there 🙂

“As my mom has said, when one person is unhappy, it usually means two people are unhappy but that one has not come to terms with it yet.”

What was the best book you read last month? 

Show Us Your Books: July

August 11, 2015 by Mariah 35 Comments

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So many books, so little time! I have so many books on hold, I can’t keep up 🙂 I managed to cross-off quite a few this month and many of them were good, but depressing.

The title is linked to Goodreads and the cover is linked to Amazon. The Amazon link is an affiliated link*. I’ve pulled the description from Goodreads. 

The Storied Life of A.J. Fikry by Gabrielle Zevin

On the faded Island Books sign hanging over the porch of the Victorian cottage is the motto “No Man Is an Island; Every Book Is a World.” A. J. Fikry, the irascible owner, is about to discover just what that truly means. A. J. Fikry’s life is not at all what he expected it to be. His wife has died, his bookstore is experiencing the worst sales in its history, and now his prized possession, a rare collection of Poe poems, has been stolen. And then a mysterious package appears at the bookstore. It’s a small package, but large in weight. It’s that unexpected arrival that gives A. J. Fikry the opportunity to make his life over, the ability to see everything anew. As surprising as it is moving, The Storied Life of A. J. Fikry is an unforgettable tale of transformation and second chances, an irresistible affirmation of why we read, and why we love.–Goodreads

I enjoyed this book. It was sad, but it also was really great. I feel like if someone just described the plot to me, I wouldn’t necessarily be overly interested. The writing was good, and the characters are what made this book…their fears, grief, happiness. It is a little funny to read a book, that is so focused around books….a bit Truman Show.

  • “Her talents also include multitasking, selecting the right wine at dinner (and the coordinating skill, tending friends who’ve had too much to drink), houseplants, strays, and other lost causes.”
  • “Fucking love, he thinks. What a bother. It’s completely gotten in the way of his plan to drink himself to death, to drive his business to ruin. The most annoying thing about it is that once a person gives a shit about one thing, he finds he has to start giving a shit about everything.”
  • “People tell boring lies about politics, God, and love. You know everything you need to know about a person from the answer to the question, What is your favorite book?”

Dept. of Speculation by Jenny Offill

With cool precision, in language that shimmers with rage and wit and fierce longing, Jenny Offill has crafted an exquisitely suspenseful love story that has the velocity of a train hurtling through the night at top speed. Exceptionally lean and compact, Dept. of Speculation is a novel to be devoured in a single sitting, though its bracing emotional insights and piercing meditations on despair and love will linger long after the last page.–Goodreads

This was an interesting book. I liked it. Very different set up for a story in terms of writing style, which was refreshing. Easy read, I read it in a night. Tons of quotes!! I actually feel I can relate to the female narrator, which is a bit scary. I hope that doesn’t mean my husband will cheat on me! P would be so upset I even said that, just for the record P’s not type of guy. Of course to be fair that is probably what she said, let’s not go down that rabbit hole! I’m joking he won’t, because I’m much scarier than the narrator and don’t have a devil baby 😉

  • “Life equals structure plus activity”
  • “Their mother died when they were young. Their father was elsewhere. What would it be like to make it so late into life before trouble hit? To always have someone on the front porch, calling you to dinner? The husband doesn’t have even a touch of this raised-by-wolvesness.”
  • “But now it seems possible that the truth about getting older is that there are fewer and fewer things to make fun of until finally there is nothing you are sure you will never be.”
  • “Of course it is difficult. You are creating a creature with a soul, my friend says.”
  • “I was thinking about what it would be like to live somewhere so beautiful. Would it fix my brain?”

All The Bright Places by Jennifer Niven

When Finch and Violet meet on the ledge of the bell tower at school, it’s unclear who saves whom. And when they pair up on a project to discover the “natural wonders” of their state, both Finch and Violet make more important discoveries: It’s only with Violet that Finch can be himself—a weird, funny, live-out-loud guy who’s not such a freak after all. And it’s only with Finch that Violet can forget to count away the days and start living them. But as Violet’s world grows, Finch’s begins to shrink.–Goodreads

I like this one, but I kind of hated it at the same time. The story is just a reminder, that life is so damn unfair. It was so sad, but I liked the good parts–how life can be good, but it mixes with the bad.  It was depressing and it pissed me off….but it is a really well written book. 

  • “But then I realized, believe it or not, it’s actually beautiful to some people. It must be, because enough people live here, and they can’t all think it’s ugly.”
  • “Be the person I’m meant to be and have that be enough.”
  • “The problem with people is they forget that most of the time it’s the small things that count. Everyone’s so busy waiting in the Waiting Place. If we stopped to remember that there’s such a thing as a Purina Tower and a view like this, we’d all be happier.”
  • “The thing I realize is that it’s not what you take, it’s what you leave.”

Before We Met by Lucie Whitehouse

Hannah, independent, headstrong, and determined not to follow in the footsteps of her bitterly divorced mother, has always avoided commitment. But one hot New York summer she meets Mark Reilly, a fellow Brit, and is swept up in a love affair that changes all her ideas about what marriage might mean. Hannah begins to dig into her husband’s life, uncovering revelations that throw into doubt everything she has ever believed about him. As her investigation leads her away from their fairytale romance into a place of violence and fear she must decide whether the secrets Mark has been keeping are designed to protect him or protect her . . .–Goodreads
This was a good quick read. It draws you in, a fast paced psychological thriller. I liked it, not much more to say on it. I didn’t bother looking for quotes from this one.

A Dark Lure by Loreth Anne White

Twelve years ago, Sarah Baker was abducted by the Watt Lake Killer and sexually assaulted for months before managing to escape. The killer was caught, but Sarah lost everything: her marriage, her child, and the life she loved.Struggling with PTSD, Sarah changes her name to Olivia West and finds sanctuary working on Broken Bar Ranch. But as her scars finally begin to heal, a cop involved with her horrific case remains convinced the Watt Lake Killer is still out there. He sets a lure for the murderer, and a fresh body is discovered. Now Olivia must face the impossible—could the butcher be back, this time to finish the job?–Goodreads

Another quick read, thriller. Not as good as Before We Met. It was a bit more slow-paced and obvious, with long lead-ins. Also, there were a few very descriptive sex scenes, which didn’t really add to the story. Meh, the plot was pretty good, but not a top read. I didn’t look for quotes in this one either.

Every Day by David Levithan

Every day a different body. Every day a different life. Every day in love with the same girl.
There’s never any warning about where it will be or who it will be. A has made peace with that, even established guidelines by which to live: Never get too attached. Avoid being noticed. Do not interfere.
It’s all fine until the morning that A wakes up in the body of Justin and meets Justin’s girlfriend, Rhiannon. From that moment, the rules by which A has been living no longer apply. Because finally A has found someone he wants to be with—day in, day out, day after day.–Goodreads

This book was interesting. It left me with so many questions. Where is he going to run to? Maybe he is meant to stay for more than one day? What if he stayed to help, put the person on a better path? I find it a bit creepy that he “chose” a boyfriend for Rhiannon. What is the deal with Poole, what does A think Poole could do to him? It was such a unique storyline. I wonder why Levithan picked age 16 for the characters? What would it be like at 21, 26, 30 etc? The question that struck me most was, what is the purpose of A? But it’s funny as most of us don’t “know” our purpose. What’s the purpose of life? This book really got me thinking. Also, while A doesn’t assign she/he, I felt very strongly “he” when reading it. This may be Rhiannon’s influence on the story, she clearly was more comfortable with A as a he. I might read the other two books, Six Earlier Days and Another Day.

  • “She stays in the same spot, anchored by the profound, desperate loneliness of a bad relationship.”
  • “Knowledge is the only thing I take with me when I go.”
  • “And it’s not a beautiful sadness–beautiful sadness is a myth. Sadness turns our features to clay, not porcelain.”
  • “And once again I think about how people use the devil as an alias for the things they fear.”
  • “I don’t have the heart to tell him that’s the wrong way to think about the world. There will always be more questions. Every answer leads to more questions. The only way to survive is to let some of them go.”

Dorothy Must Die by Danielle Paige

I didn’t ask for any of this. I didn’t ask to be some kind of hero.
But when your whole life gets swept up by a tornado – taking you with it – you have no choice but to go along, you know?
Sure, I’ve read the books. I’ve seen the movies. I know the song about the rainbow and the happy little bluebirds. But I never expected Oz to look like this. To be a place where Good Witches can’t be trusted, Wicked Witches may just be the good guys, and winged monkeys can be executed for acts of rebellion. There’s still a yellow brick road – but even that’s crumbling.
What happened? Dorothy.
They say she found a way to come back to Oz. They say she seized power and the power went to her head. And now no one is safe.
My name is Amy Gumm – and I’m the other girl from Kansas.
I’ve been recruited by the Revolutionary Order of the Wicked.
I’ve been trained to fight.–Goodreads

This is a suggestion I picked up from the link-up. I love Wizard of Oz and the Wicked series, so I thought why not. It was a good book, it was the first one of the series. I liked the characters and the booked jumped right into the action. Looking forward to seeing how the story turns out.

  • “You don’t have to know every turn of the road in order to walk down it.”
  • “Forgiveness doesn’t come easy for you, I see. Sometimes you have to bend so as not to break, dear.”

The Art of Work by Jeff Goins

I actually have a whole other post drafted for this book, but I think I’m going to save sharing it for a little while. So, I’m keeping this short…buy this book 🙂 I mentioned it in last Monday’s post, but this book just totally clicked with me. I recommend it, I even bought a copy after reading the library copy!

What good books have you read lately? Have you ever read a book that totally changed the way you look at something?

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