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Show Us Your Books: December 2015

January 11, 2016 by Mariah 28 Comments

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Had a great reading month in December!

The first thing I must share is that, Miriam (Farm Girl), finished and published her very first book!!

How To Be You

I am SO proud of Miriam for following through on a dream and putting herself out there. I was beyond thrilled to get to push buy on Amazon and read her book. I was smiling ear to ear reading it, and crying a little too. Nothing I can write here will do her justice. I don’t push you guys much here to do anything, but I demand you go buy this book 🙂 GO NOW, PRESS BUY!! Seriously, it’s your lose if you don’t listen to me.

In other December reading news, I had several books that really got me thinking and are changing my daily actions, which I love. As always when we talk about books it’s with Jana & Steph 🙂

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A Good Marriage by Stephen King

I just randomly picked this up between books. It’s more of a short story than a novel, and this edition contained the story 1922, which was actually longer than A Good Marriage. Both were ok, but not my favorite King writing. A bit more old school thriller/mystery as in the lines of Hitchcock. Apparently they made a movie of A Good Marriage, I’m going to have to look it up. That is what drew me in to choose this book, as I was waiting on holds 🙂

Steal Like An Artist by Austin Kleon

LOVED this book. Very quick read, but so many good tidbits. Sometimes you need to hear out loud (read out loud) things that are common sense, but click when you see them on paper. I felt like there was so much good advice in this book. I get really overwhelmed with the idea of originality especially with spending so much time online, so this resonated with me to get out of my own head. I pulled a few of the passages that I really felt rang a bell with me…

“What a good artist understands is that nothing comes from nowhere. All creative work builds on what came before. Nothing is completely original.”

“If we’re free from the burden of trying to be completely original, we can stop trying to make something out of nothing, and we can embrace influence instead of running away from it.”

“You are, in fact, a mashup of what you choose to let into your life. You are the sum of your influences. The German writer Goethe said, “We are shaped and fashioned by what we love.”

“…if you try to devour the history of your discipline all at once, you’ll choke. Instead, chew on one thinker–writer, artist, activist, role model–you really love. Study everything there is to know about that thinker. Then find three people that thinker loved, and find out everything about them. Repeat this as many times as you can. Climb up the tree as far as you can go.”

Better Than Before by Gretchen Rubin

Loved, loved. This is a book that I can say 100% changed actions and something I’m still working on applying today. I took like five pages of notes and it really got me thinking about how I set goals, and daily routines. This is one of my top books for getting me thinking and putting things in a different mindset for myself. Very thought provoking, but also very actionable. Prior to this book, I had not read The Happiness Project. Embarrassingly enough I didn’t even realize she wrote The Happiness Project, though she referred it often in Better Than Before (however she never said “my” book). She breaks down personality into four types when it comes to building habits and approaching goals: Upholders, Questioners, Obligers, and Rebels. She then goes through different approaches to building habits and how the different types can best use these approaches. I just loved this book, and had so many good ideas while reading it. I’ve been struggling with getting a daily routine together, and this book was wonderful for me.

The Happiness Project by Gretchen Rubin

Of course after reading Better Than Before, I checked this out immediately. The books certainly flow into one another, though I think I might have looked at Better Than Before with a more fresh view of the author than if I had read The Happiness Project first. I really liked this one too, though it felt less actionable than Better Than Before. Honestly, it’s hard to separate the two completely in my mind, once I finished this one. The Happiness Project reads to me much more of a personal story, where Better Than Before is a bit more scientific based. I liked The Happiness Project too and it had some great lessons about being more mindful. I love the idea of building your personal commandments and really evaluating what do you enjoy, versus what you “wish” you enjoyed. This is an exercise that I am absolutely working on and bringing into my life.

Black-Eyed Susans by Julia Heaberlin

Nice fast-paced plot that draws you in quickly. I think the “love” story was so superfluous to the story, it could have so easily been left out. It seemed so silly to add that in and not tie it better to the plot or emotions of the character…other than hook-up scenes and a splash of jealousy here and there. I felt like the ending was presented in a clunky manner, and super rushed. Honestly they could have cut out some of the “love story” and added to the end instead of cramming it all into the Epilogue. Good entertainment value but overall the characters and plot could have used some refinement as you got further into the story.

The Expats by Chris Pavone

I hated the back and forth jumping in time of this book. Often times jumping around does not really bother me, but in this book it did. I considered giving up on it half way through, because I was so annoyed. To me it was hard to really get into the plot. Of course right about when I thought about giving in, they stopped jumping around quite so much. The plot is interesting but I was not blown away with this one.

The Psychopath Test by Jon Ronson

What an interesting read! I really enjoyed how he organized the book and found it very intriguing and engaging. I enjoyed this book much more than I expected. I thought the topic was interesting so I thought I would give it a try, and found the author very witty and engaging. Not a dry book, so if you have an interest in psychology at all, I think you would enjoy it.

ReWork by Jason Fried

I like how straightforward this book was. I think there was some good advice there for anyone in business. I would have loved to share some that knowledge, but my kindle did not save my highlights 🙁 I’m so sad.  

What books are on your 2016 reading list?

P.S. As a total side note, I’m really focusing on building my business this month. January has started off great. Anyway that is why I’ve been quiet over here, I just need to put all my attention and energy to get BHG off the ground 🙂 So sorry for the lack of interaction lately….don’t worry I’ll be back when things get smoother.

Show Us Your Books: May

June 9, 2015 by Mariah 47 Comments

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This month was a good reading month for me. Mainly because so many of my holds came available this month, and I had to keep on top of my reading so I didn’t miss out. I read some good books this month.

The title is linked to Goodreads and the cover is linked to Amazon. The Amazon link is an affiliated link*. I’ve pulled the description from Goodreads. 

Station Eleven by Emily St. John Mandel

Spanning decades, moving back and forth in time, and vividly depicting life before and after the pandemic, this suspenseful, elegiac novel is rife with beauty. As Arthur falls in and out of love, as Jeevan watches the newscasters say their final good-byes, and as Kirsten finds herself caught in the crosshairs of the prophet, we see the strange twists of fate that connect them all. A novel of art, memory, and ambition, Station Eleven tells a story about the relationships that sustain us, the ephemeral nature of fame, and the beauty of the world as we know it.-Goodreads

I LOVED this book! I want it to be a series. I want to find out more about where the lives of the characters go and what happens next. I loved the plot, the characters, the writing. This is definitely up there for books I’ve read lately. I do like post-apocalypse novels, so this probably is part of my enthusiasm for the book. I didn’t enjoy the before parts of the story-line as much, but it added to the story. What would be the probability that all those people who were connected by that one man would survive into the post-plague world? While I was reading I had so many questions pop into my mind about society and how I would feel in that situation. Like would getting electricity/internet be a major priority? When do those modern conveniences come back into play? It’s weird to think of having to re-invent so much of the world. To go from a world where everything that you ever want to know (almost) is at the touch of your fingertips, to struggling to eat and traveling on foot. I want a second book!

“No more Internet. No more social media, no more scrolling through litanies of dreams and nervous hopes and photographs of lunches, cries for help and expressions of contentment and relationship-status updates with heart icons whole or broken, plans to meet up later, pleas, complaints, desires, pictures of babies dressed as bears or peppers for Halloween. No more reading and commenting on the lives of others, and in so doing, feeling slightly less alone in the room.”

“It’s possible that no one who didn’t grow up in a small place can understand how beautiful this is, how the anonymity of the city life feels like freedom.”

“I think people like him think work is supposed to be drudgery punctuated by very occasional moments of happiness, but when I say happiness, I mostly mean distraction.”

“….but then by four or five o’clock the day’s just turned into yet another day, and you go on like that, looking forward to five o’clock and then the weekend and then your two or three annual weeks of paid vacation time, day in day out, and that’s what happens to your life.”

The Martian by Andy Weir

Six days ago, astronaut Mark Watney became one of the first people to walk on Mars. Now, he’s sure he’ll be the first person to die there. After a dust storm nearly kills him & forces his crew to evacuate while thinking him dead, Mark finds himself stranded & completely alone with no way to even signal Earth that he’s alive—& even if he could get word out, his supplies would be gone long before a rescue could arrive. Chances are, though, he won’t have time to starve to death. The damaged machinery, unforgiving environment or plain-old “human error” are much more likely to kill him first. But Mark isn’t ready to give up yet. Drawing on his ingenuity, his engineering skills—& a relentless, dogged refusal to quit—he steadfastly confronts one seemingly insurmountable obstacle after the next. Will his resourcefulness be enough to overcome the impossible odds against him?-Goodreads

I loved this one too!! Another, read in a day book. I found myself rooting for Mark, and could imagine the tension that every household felt while watching this story unfold. It really pulled me in and I felt emotionally attached to Mark. If I find myself wondering about what happens next, it’s usually a sign of a good book for me. Yes, there is a lot of numbers/science/math involved, but it was not presented in a overly complicated manner or boring. It wasn’t pages and pages of how he figured out xyz. I loved the humor Mark presented in the story. I would certainly recommend this book to anyone.

“Duct tape works anywhere. Duck tape is magic and should be worshiped.”

“…human being has a basic instinct to help each other out. It might not seem that way sometimes, but it’s true… This is so fundamentally human that it’s found in every culture without exception. Yes, there are assholes who just don’t are, but they’re massively outnumbered by the people who do.”

“Maybe I’ll post a consumer review. Brought product to surface of Mars. It stopped working 0/10.”

The Girl On The Train by Paula Hawkins

Rachel takes the same commuter train every morning. Every day she rattles down the track, flashes past a stretch of cozy suburban homes, and stops at the signal that allows her to daily watch the same couple breakfasting on their deck. She’s even started to feel like she knows them. “Jess and Jason,” she calls them. Their life—as she sees it—is perfect. Not unlike the life she recently lost.
And then she sees something shocking. It’s only a minute until the train moves on, but it’s enough. Now everything’s changed. Unable to keep it to herself, Rachel offers what she knows to the police, and becomes inextricably entwined in what happens next, as well as in the lives of everyone involved. Has she done more harm than good?-Goodreads

I held out and waited for it to come available from the library, so yay me 🙂 I think half of blogland has already reviewed this book, and I was really excited to read it. I was surprised at the number of positive reviews from so many bloggers. I liked this book, I read it in half a day. It is a pull you in story and an easy read. Since it is often compared to Gone Girl, I do think Gone Girl was a better book. The Girl on The Train didn’t have as much shock factor. While I found most of the characters in Gone Girl totally unlikable and really messed up, I found The Girl on The Train characters unlikable, in a I want to shake them and say get your shit together kind of way. I’m sure I read it more critically than I would have it didn’t get SO much hype and I’ve read many reviews on it. I enjoyed this book, but I wanted more of a shock factor.

“….as if I’m playing at real life instead of actually living it. I need to find something that I must do, something undeniable.”

“I don’t know where that strength went, I don’t remember losing it. I think that over time it got chipped away, bit by bit, by life, by the living of it.”

“There’s nothing so painful, so corrosive, as suspicion.”

“His strength, that protectiveness he radiates, it doesn’t mean she’s weak. She’s strong in other ways; she makes intellectual leaps that leave him openmouthed in admiration. She can cut to the nub of a problem, dissect and analyze it in the time it takes other people to say good morning.”

Big Little Lies by Liane Moriarty

Big Little Lies is a brilliant take on ex-husbands and second wives, mothers and daughters, schoolyard scandal, and the dangerous little lies we tell ourselves just to survive.-Goodreads

I felt like this was almost like a combination of The Husband & What Alice Forgot. It was a page-turner. I love how she presents the plots of her stories, her story-telling style. I think this would be a great beach read. Not super light, but the story grabs you and keeps you guessing.

“ They say it’s good to let your grudges go, but I don’t know, I’m quite fond of my grudge. I tend it like a little pet.”

“If she packaged the perfect Facebook life, maybe she would start to believe it herself.”

Revival by Stephen King

In a small New England town, over half a century ago, a shadow falls over a small boy playing with his toy soldiers. Jamie Morton looks up to see a striking man, the new minister. Charles Jacobs, along with his beautiful wife, will transform the local church. The men and boys are all a bit in love with Mrs. Jacobs; the women and girls feel the same about Reverend Jacobs — including Jamie’s mother and beloved sister, Claire. With Jamie, the Reverend shares a deeper bond based on a secret obsession. When tragedy strikes the Jacobs family, this charismatic preacher curses God, mocks all religious belief, and is banished from the shocked town. -Goodreads

I’m a big fan of King, some of my favorites of his is the Dark Tower Series and 11/22/63. This one was good, but I didn’t feel really hooked until about midway through. It started slow for me. It reminded me a bit of the same story-telling style as Doctor Sleep, though I liked Doctor Sleep much more. Good, but not the best King has to offer in my option.

“He spoke with the patience of a true believer. Or a lunatic. Maybe there’s really no difference.”

“The three true ages of man are youth, middle age, and how the fuck did I get old so soon?”

“People have many ways to be lousy to one another, as you’ll find out when you’re older, but I think that all bad behavior stems from plain old selfishness.”

My Sunshine Away by M.O. Walsh

In “My Sunshine Away,” M.O. Walsh brilliantly juxtaposes the enchantment of a charmed childhood with the gripping story of a violent crime, unraveling families, and consuming adolescent love. Acutely wise and deeply honest, it is an astonishing and page-turning debut about the meaning of family, the power of memory, and our ability to forgive.-Goodreads

This is a hard one for me to judge. I think it was written well, but I didn’t enjoy it that much. I wasn’t particularly grabbed by the plot or the narrator. I thought the chapter about hurricane Katrina was so unrelated to the story, it was weird, and obviously just an aside that the author felt compelled to include, but didn’t belong there. Good writing but the plot needed work.

“Once the trust is gone, you know, all of history changes. A person doesn’t know what to believe.”

Everything I Never Told You by Celeste Ng

Lydia is dead. But they don’t know this yet . . . So begins this debut novel about a mixed-race family living in 1970s Ohio and the tragedy that will either be their undoing or their salvation. Lydia is the favorite child of Marilyn and James Lee; their middle daughter, a girl who inherited her mother’s bright blue eyes and her father’s jet-black hair. Her parents are determined that Lydia will fulfill the dreams they were unable to pursue—in Marilyn’s case that her daughter become a doctor rather than a homemaker, in James’s case that Lydia be popular at school, a girl with a busy social life and the center of every party.-Goodreads

This book was well written, but I had trouble with the storyline and characters. I just could not relate, and Lydia did feel whiny to me (I feel like a terrible person saying that). I certainly felt sorry for many of the characters throughout the story, but I was also annoyed by them on a regular basis too. To me, not a very satisfying read. It was very well written though, even if the story was not really my thing.

“Because more than anything, her mother had wanted to stand out; because more than anything, her father had wanted to blend in. Because those things had been impossible.”

“How was it possible to spend so many hours spreading peanut butter across bread? How was it possible to spend so many hours cooking eggs?…It behooves a good wife to know how to make an egg behave in six basic ways.”

“Before that she  hadn’t realized how fragile happiness was, how if you were careless, you could knock it over and shatter it.”

The River Cottage Booze Handbook by John Wright*

This is an interesting book, not exactly what I was expecting. The size is nice and it’s a hardback book. It’s a very thorough book. Wright goes into a lot of detail for each recipe including procedures and history, but it’s almost daunting to read over the recipes. Many of the ingredients recommended are exotic, hard to find, and/or must be foraged. One example of this is the moss oak gin. I don’t feel comfortable gathering moss to make an infusion with. He mentions a warning on the oak moss gin, “Although I have been unable to find any indication that oak moss is poisonous if ingested…”. That phrase did not make me feel super confident. The most interesting chapter to me was the cider making chapter. I like that he goes through the process of how to make your own apple juice. This is something that we have been interested in. We have made hard cider before, but with store-bought juice. I personally like dry sparkling cider, which he mentions, but with a backhanded comment about why would anyone want to drink that. Overall, I think this book is only for the most adventurous of infuser. Most of it comes across as old-fashioned, even though the summary says, “the ultimate modern hombrewer’s book”. Not recipes you are going to be able to whip-up in an afternoon or after a simple trip to your grocery store. There wasn’t a recipe that I could find that I wanted to attempt trying.  *I received The River Cottage Booze Handbook from Blogging for Books for this review, all opinions are my own.

What good books have you read recently? 

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What’s next on your to-read list or what are your reading right now?

Show Us Your Books~November Edition

December 9, 2014 by Mariah 10 Comments

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I’m joining in the Show Us Your Books linkup hosted by Life According to Step & Jana Says. I’ve always been a bigger reader, but have fallen off the reading wagon this year. This linkup was the perfect way to get me back into the routine of reading and a great way to find new recommendations. In November I got back to reading and finished:

Tell The Wolves I'm Home
This is a coming of age story, about a girl and her dealing with the death of her gay uncle from AIDS. I liked this but felt like it dragged a bit. I didn’t really care for the sister’s character at all and the parents seemed almost shadow characters, not really developed. It wasn’t a book that read smoothly for me, but the story line was interesting.

 The Passage Justin Cronin
Now, I wish I had looked up to see if the third book had been released before I started this series. Sadly, I have to wait until Fall 2015 for the conclusion. I prefer to read straight through a series. With that said, neither book one or book two really finished on a cliff-hanger. I liked Passage more than The Twelve. These books remind me of the Walking Dead series, where the survives have to worry just as much about other survivors than they do the “threat”.
The Twelve by Justin Cronin
I did not care for the jumping around of the story-line in the second book and was a bit put off that several “main” characters were killed within the jump between book one and two. While you know the story is not finished, it did seem to have a sense of closure. Both book one and two I moved quickly through.

You Should Have Known
A story of a husband’s double life unfolds in a dark way for his wife. For me this was a page turner, and while I think you know where the story is headed you want to see how it unfolds. I felt like the ending was a bit drawn out, but at the same time the conclusion did not satisfy me.

 

Life According to Steph
What is one book you would recommend for me to read next? 
BTW it’s hard to write about books without giving away too much!

Five Books For When You Are On Hold

November 17, 2014 by Mariah 12 Comments

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I’ve been inspired by all the other lovely bloggers who have been posting about books lately. Since I started the blog I’ve really fallen off the reading wagon. I use to read two or three books in a week. I think this last year I’ve read maybe 12?? One thing that struck me is how many people don’t seem to use the library, I’m not judging, I’m just surprised. Most libraries now have eCollections, so you don’t even have to go to the physical library once you get a card. Of course the downside is that books are slow to come out on the eCollection and there is a long hold list for the most popular. Depending on how badly I have been wanting to read something, I will put in the hold request and find something else for the mean time. The classics are usually readily available so there is always that to tide you over or you can search back for a book you missed when it first came out.  I’m suggesting some older books that I enjoyed and maybe you missed during their reign of popularity or lack there of:

11/22/63 by Stephen King
I know, I know, you’re not a Stephen King fan, but this one I would still suggest to non-King readers. I think you could read this one and not have to hide it in the freezer. I found it a page turner and was speed reading to see what happened. It did get a bit slow in the middle but push through, it does pick back up.

Me Talk Pretty One Day by David
If you have not read any of his books, you really should 🙂 It’s mostly short stories/anecdotes about his life, and most of them are hilarious. If you only read one chapter make it “You Can’t Kill The Rooster”.

Practical Demonkeeping by Christopher Moore
I think this is one of Moore’s better but less known books. Of course I haven’t met a ton of people who talk about reading Moore either so there is that. I like Moore’s dry humor with a creative spin.

The Historian by Elizabeth Kostova
I’m actually a bit surprised with how bad the reviews are on Goodreads. Maybe I’m a huge dork and dry doesn’t bother me or maybe people read vampire in the description and expect something more Twilight? This is a long book but I really enjoyed it. I think it is really well written for the most part. The ending did feel a bit rushed but still thoroughly enjoyed this book.

Neverwhere by Neil Gaiman
I liken this story to a darker Wizard of Oz. I was captivated by the story and pulled-in after a chapter or two. If you haven’t tried Neil Gaiman I suggest you give him a chance, his books generally weave fascinating worlds and characters.

Well, that is all for today…I’ve got to get back to my book 🙂 I want to be able to join Steph’s next Show Us Your Book link-up on December 9th.

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What books would you recommend that maybe we missed when they first came out?

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